Still in ones certainly burn out. A lot of are held hostage by family, otherwise we would drift off to being good people.
We will never overcome no military experience(, or conversely no hippie), no college, no birthday, no xmas, no Halloween, that always crops up in life.
Actually I think mom was pimo, I did get to a few birthday parties, did Halloween. Dad was too beat working 2 jobs to be a servant.
A buddies mom and stepdad gave me a taste of xmas, new year. Helped me round out.
My in wife fudges on DF family out of common sense. Meeting her did work well, she was a beauty ( old now), hot, and dedicated to her family and mine in turn